So there're these idiots see...

Loyalty. I was always told by my family that I should be loyal to them before my friends. Fuck that.

As an update to my previous post about the retardation that is my ex-wife Penny. Whom you may know as the insufferable monstrosity. I'd like to tell you a bit about my family. Not the family in my house, no, these people I like. Maybe it's because they aren't blood, or something.

My sister just stopped by a little bit ago to drop off a gift for my step son, and mentioned that the ex-thing is out of state due to a death in her family and has Ember, my daughter with her. Further news is that mom and dad arrive in town from Tupelo fucking Mississippi this week. They're expecting my ex to be back in state on the seventh and they'll have her and my daughter over on the twelfth.

So, If I'm hearing this correctly... My family get to see my daughter, but for some as yet undisclosed reason, I, Swyndle, father of the toddler in question, don't. I've argued, I've fought, I've been nice, I've given and given and given, I've threatened legal involvement yet still the little tramp has yet to let me see or even talk to my own flesh and blood. Despite the divorce decree which states in no uncertain terms that she is legally required to do so.

In the meantime, my grandparents, my parents, my sisters and who the fuck knows who else are calling her to see my daughter rather than calling me. They're all real good friends. I suppose that makes a degree of sense, if you want to see someone, call the person that ALWAYS has access to them, rather than try and support or help the person you should.

The mentality seems to be, " Wow, she wont let you see her? Sucks. Good luck. Now we're off to take her to dinner, bye."

Family.

Fucking goddamned backward assed believing in goddamned angels backstabbing fucking family.

Nobody ever tells me anything. My uncle apparently has cancer AGAIN and no one tells me. A few years back my sister got pregnant before graduating high school. I found out after her fucking wedding. My ex wife kidnaps my daughter to some midwestern town for a year, they get to see her all the fucking time and no one tells me. I am so fucking sick of this bullshit with these people.

You know, technically I'm only related to three of you. Mom, and my sisters. That's it. No wonder I get treated like a total fucking pariah.

As for the law, thus far they've been on her side. " She's a woman, therefore you pay her." "She's a woman, therefore she makes the rules." " She's a woman, therefore you have no rights ever."

So here's what's going to happen. Here's your warning. The LAST warning.

Either things change and I start seeing my daughter half of the time as agreed, or I go for full custody in a court that wont shaft me because of my chromosomes. With a lawyer. At which point, upon gaining full custody, I m ove the fuck away and you can all rot. Total cut off.

You want to see her, you'll have to go through me, but you people wont be able to find me, and even if you do, you'll still have to beg.

Stop bothering me about christmas... stop bothering me about birthdays... stop bothering me about anything and everything... Just stop bothering me.

This is important:

Don't call me, don't write me, don't attempt to contact me or anyone else in MY FAMILY. My wife, my step children, we're all off limits.

Go fuck yourselves.

~Swyndle